The Disney Delusion: Can Ordinary UK Families Really Afford the Paris Dream?

Suzanne
3 min readNov 14, 2023

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My Reality Check on the Cost of Childhood Fantasies

As a wide-eyed, adventure-seeking parent, I found myself recently daydreaming about whisking my almost-6-year-old off to Disneyland Paris. Picture it: the enchantment, the laughter, a rite of passage into the world of Disney magic. It seemed like a flawless plan, until I did the unthinkable – I checked the prices. And that’s when my purse, usually so brave and sturdy, whimpered and went into hiding.

The Personal Journey

Embarking on this research journey, I was flooded with nostalgia. I remember my own Disney experience in Orlando at the age of 13. It was a whirlwind of joy, the sort of magic that doesn’t fade even as the years march on. Those memories are etched in my heart, as vivid as if they happened yesterday. Naturally, I wanted to gift my child with a similar tapestry of magical moments.

But the cost! When I tallied up the expenses – travel, accommodation, tickets – my bank account gave me a stern look and a decisive shake of the head. I mean, I thought our household income was respectable, but this? This was a whole new level of financial commitment for what essentially boiled down to a 3 or 4-day trip. I had to ask myself, is this experience really meant for the financial elite?

Reconsidering the Dream:This realisation led me to an extreme U-turn on my Disney dream. At 6, would my child cherish these memories like I did at 13? Or would they be fleeting, lost in the blur of childhood?

Advantages of Visiting Disneyland Paris with a 6-Year-Old:

1. Unmatched Magic: The allure of Disney’s fantasy world is undeniable. Seeing your child’s imagination come to life in such a vibrant setting is truly heartwarming.

2. Cultural Learning: A trip to France, even one centered around Disney, offers a unique cultural opportunity. It’s not every day you get to mix fairy tales with a side of French culture.

3. Lifetime Memories: Childhood is transient, and these memories could be the golden threads in the tapestry of their young lives.

Disadvantages of Visiting Disneyland Paris with a 6-Year-Old:

1. Staggering Costs: The financial toll of such a trip can be overwhelming. It’s a significant investment for a family experience that might be too grandiose for a 6-year-old’s appreciation.

2. Potential Overwhelm: The excitement, the crowds, and the sensory overload could be a bit too much for a young child (and their parents!).

3. Fleeting Attention: At this age, their interests are as changeable as the wind. What captivates them one moment might be forgotten the next.

In my heart, I’ve decided we’re not quite ready to make this investment. I’ve learned that the magic of childhood isn’t just in grand gestures like a trip to Disneyland. Sometimes, it’s in the everyday wonders, the small adventures that we embark on as a family. Maybe one day, when my child is a bit older and the time is right, we’ll revisit this dream. But for now, I’ll treasure the simpler moments that, in their own way, are just as magical.

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